2 failed surgeries and every medication in the book, help appreciated

Hello, my name is Devin, I am 22 years old,and I have been living with acid reflux and a hiatal hernia for over 3 years now. I have tried almost every medication you can think of, including prilosec, zantac, zegrid, aciphex, prevacid and protonics ; I have not tried nexium because it is not covered by my health insurance. I had a nissan fundo a little over 3 weeks ago and my reflux has already returned worse then ever. Before that, I had the newer, less invasive version if the nissan fundo which was also unsuccesful. I've tried to remain positive about the situation over the years, but as a full time college student dealing with bi-polar disorder and college life in general, this is really starting to get me down. I often find myself frustrated and crying over my gerd and I don't know what to do at this point. I feel that all joy has been taken from my life now; I can no longer go out to the bars or parties with my friends on the weekends and often just stay at home instead in order to avoid situations with greasy food and alcohol. It seems that no matter what I do this problem is not getting better. Please help :0(