I feel for you so! We struggled with what sounds so similar with our daughter when she was 2-3 months old. It started when she ended up in the ER for 3 days at 2 weeks old (due to a fever). She was given IV antibiotics for 48 hours. After this episode, she started with horrible reflux. They may have not been related.
We went through all formulas there are. First had blood in stool from soy, then supposedly allergic to milk, no more breastfeeding, alimentum, nutramigen... Finally, she was really diagnosed with GERD, reflux, and cetiph (apparently from the antibiotics).
SO... she is now 1. Prevacid never worked, Zantac worked. EleCare REALLY worked. At 3 months old, this all finally worked. She is still on EleCare, still can't have cow's milk and has several allergies to foods.
My first peice of advice, has anyone really diagnosed him properly? Although horrible for her to have upper GI, ultrasound, etc.; we finally figured out what was really wrong(more than anything, we ruled out the serious stuff).
NEXT, see what elecare does. It was a miracle for us.
Nightime, Why At Night? Lying down is horrble for them, with GERD and anything similar, the acid build up comes up when horizontal (in addition to the esophagus issues). My daughter started sleeping on her stomach very young on her own (b/c thats the only way she could sleep). Also, we loaded the EleCare with cereal (starting gradually and increasing over time). A doctor can advise you regarding your elecare to water ratio AND the elecare to cereal ratio.
CEREAL - BEECHNUT Mixed Cereal or Whole Grain Cereal (without soy) seems to be the most hypoallergenic (have heard from several doctors and other mothers). My daughter could not handle Gerber, etc. or any cereal with Iron, DHA/RHA. Why? the iron is self explanatory, maybe the DHA/RHA just a coincidence.
WATER - Also may be coincidence, but Nursery Water (sold in gallons at most stores) also made a difference. I started using this for the fluoride for her teeth (some cities do not have as much Fl in their H20 and most bottled water has no Fl).
And lastly, I cut the evening feedings. As long as you are confident that they have eaten or drinken their "ounces" during the day, you can feel confident putting them down at night. They are like us, meant to be able to go 12 hrs w/o eating. AND as incredibly difficult as this is, do it for him, he must learn this for his metabolism... if it's ever going to be right, he should go 12 hrs w/o eating when he is an infant.
Don't worry about others telling you "no more bottles" or "he must eat food". You do what's right for your child. As long as he is growing!
I feel for you! My advice is purely mine and may not work for anyone else, but I can be a supportive "mom" for you as I am pretty sure I think I know how you feel.
Thanks Jan.
Actually I have seen a gastroenterologist (sp?) He is the one who perscribed the prevacid, and I am taking my son to "swallow therapy" once a week with a specialist. We just switch his formula (again) to Elecare, which is completely amino acid based seeing he seems to have dificulty on the alimentum and the soy formula, the GE thinks he may have dairy and soy allergies. If he continues to throw up on the Elecare I don't know what else to do. I will say that his height/weight is fine. He is able to take the bottle during the day with out much ado, its that bedtime bottle that always comes back up. I'm thinking of trying to eliminate that last feeding somehow. I feel like if I can get him on solids this will resolve, but until then- its rough going for everyone. 374 days (and counting) without a full nights sleep is making me loopy.... Thanks again for your support.
Sam