10 Coping Mechanisms for Thriving With Adult ADHD

By Eileen Bailey

Many adults with ADHD have found systems and coping mechanisms to manage the everyday symptoms of ADHD.  However, others struggle daily with distraction, lack of organizational skills, and becoming easily overwhelmed.  The strategies below can help adults with ADHD develop coping skills: 

1)      Make time for exercise every day.  Exercise helps increase focus and attention, decrease excess energy and helps combat symptoms of depression.  Including an exercise program in your daily routine will provide you with many benefits.

2)      Accept yourself and your limitations.  Remember that ADHD is not a made-up diagnosis.  A diagnosis of ADHD can help you to understand why you act in a certain way, but it is not an excuse for inappropriate behaviors. 

3)      Find people that accept you.  Adults with ADHD may feel that those around them do not understand them, and criticize or judge them for their behaviors.  If the people you are spending time with make you feel uncomfortable or inadequate, find other people to be with.  Look up local support groups in your area or create your own network of friends that accept you and you feel comfortable around.

4)      Look for time in your day to unwind.  Use transitional time between activities to de-stress and unwind.  Stop on your way home from work to sit at a park for 10 minutes or let your family know that when you arrive home you need a few minutes of downtime before entering family activities. 

5)      Create a system for prioritizing your day.  Look over what needs to be accomplished and complete the items that are most important first.  Leave those that are less important for later.  Should you become distracted, you will know that you still have accomplished the most important items for the day.

6)      Use your own internal clock to your benefit.  If you are a morning person and are more productive early in the day, arrange your day for the most important items to be accomplished in the morning.  If you find that you do best in afternoons, arrange your day this way.  Look for jobs that will allow you to be flexible in your schedule to make the most of your own productive patterns.

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