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12 Things High School Students with ADD/ADHD Want Their Teachers to Know

By Eileen Bailey, Health Guide Sunday, August 05, 2007
August 1 has always been the date that I begin to prepare for the upcoming school year with my children. I begin reviewing with them math concepts, give them worksheets to complete and gather up the school supplies. During this month of August, I will be preparing the Health Central ADHD site for bac...
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Jeannette
12/19/07 10:03pm

  That is the most terrific article about ADHD I have ever read it is so to the point. I am an adult with ADHD and did not understand until my son was diagnosed. I am forwarding a copy to his school.

 

                                       Thanks,

                                       Jeannette

Eileen Bailey, Health Guide
12/20/07 9:15pm

 

Jeanette

 

Thank you so much for your kind words. This list was put together with the help of high school students so it really reflects how they feel.

 

Thanks again and when you forward it to the school, please let them know where it came from so they can stop by for more information about ADHD.

 

Eileen

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LuvBoxers
6/16/09 4:16am
Being an ADHD mom is very stressful! I have a second full time job--managing my daughter's school work!! Contacting teachers weekly, confronting my daughter on projects, reading books.... I love the list that you provide. I will definately print this list and show my girl and pass on to her teachers. She does not qualify for an IEP in our state, but does have a 504 plan. I ask each year that they notify me in the case of missing assignments, failed tests, etc. They don't do it...too many kids to keep track of. It's really a full time job...
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Anonymous
8/13/09 1:38pm

This is a list that is so insightful to me as well as teachers. I will keep it to forward to my son's teachers and to look back upon for myself and my husband to know how my son is actually feeling. A keeper!!! Thank you.

9/ 7/09 9:07pm
Growing up i always thought i was different, I'm now and Educational Assistant. I read this posting and a light has gone off in my brain. I think that this could be used with every student not just ADHD! We are so consumed by the volume of information not the quaility that we provide that we over look the most important, our ability to absorb and to understand everything we learn.
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Wendy
9/21/09 3:55pm

I am taking care of my nephew who is now 15 years old and having problems in High school he was recently suspended and school just started.  I will us this 12 steps to help with his 504 plan revision.  Is been a struggle elementary, middle and now highschool.  I need to find out what words for Deontaye.     Wish me luck  Wendy Baltimore City

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Anonymous
9/30/09 4:20pm

I have 3 sons 2 with ADHD and one with ADD.  My son with ADD has had the most difficult time in school and I literally just scheduled an appointment with his teachers and counselor for this friday (it's his first year of High school).  He is already struggling and we are trying to fingure out a plan for him.  This list of "things" is the best thing I've read to help explain to his teacher everything he is feeling and that he goes through.  THANK YOU SO MUCH! .... I am taking it with me Friday.

 

Chicago Mom

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SharonM
10/ 1/09 4:30am

This list brought tears to my eyes.  I have two daugthers that are both ADHD.  While one is very driven to acheive, the young one is having a horrible time.  She just started high school in August and has already received lunch detentions, almost had an in school suspension, has been late to classes several times, forgets or can't find her homework.  I will be saving this list and forwarding it to her teachers.  I couldn't have come up with better words to describe how she feels.

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A concerned mom
10/27/11 1:36pm

When a child with ADHD is not impulsive, is paying attention, is not forgetting anything and is basically on task it means that they are working very hard. You may not notice it because it doesn't seem extraordinary to you. I have watched my son struggle to do a good job and it takes much more effort than most people realize. I wish the teachers recognized that effort.

Eileen Bailey, Health Guide
10/27/11 6:14pm

Thanks so much for sharing one more thing teens with ADHD want their teachers to know. Your son is lucky to have such a caring and understanding mom!

 

Eileen

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Anonymous
5/ 4/12 10:11am

Eileen Thank you for this article my daughter has struggled this year so much shes in 9th grade.  You have me in tears.  I knew all these things..... I have fought hard for her in grade school and was always amazed how little teachers understand the need for structure.  My daughter shuts down when she is called out infront of people.  She is mortified if another student is called upon to help her.  My daughters biggest struggle is organization, forgetting things and losing or not turning things in... You have reminded me that I have gotten caught up with all the details of the problem and forgot how wonderful she is- She works so hard and she does shut down --She is a teenager with hormones and so much stress.  Yes it is really hard on the parents, but this article has refocused me back to how incredibly hard it is on her.  Throughout all her issues with school and upcoming summer school she is still (away from school) the happiest kid I know. Thank you and I will be passing this on to her teachers

 

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By Eileen Bailey, Health Guide— Last Modified: 02/27/13, First Published: 08/05/07