Tuesday, January 10, 2012
As parents we want to believe that our children will always tell us the truth and it is a difficult moment when we realize our child has deliberately lied to us. Lying is a normal part of childhood development. Children may begin telling "lies" around the age of 5 in order to avoid disappointing thei...
My granddaughter has lied since her early years. She is now 17 and continues to lie about her sister, things and school and homework. If she is caught in the lie then she makes up the story as she goes along to try to justify it. She is definitely not sympathetic to things that happen to others. She cares more for her friends than her family. There is always an excuse for what happens. Her mother is just about to lose it. We are wondering if maybe she has a defiance disorder or is bi-polar.
Jean
Thanks for your comment. Unfortunately, I am not a medical professional and would not be able to tell you whether your granddaughter has a defiance disorder or bipolar disorder. I would definately suggest talking with your daughter's doctor about what is going on. Often, if there is a problem that is not getting resolved, starting at the beginning, with a complete evaluation is a good idea. You may want to ask your doctor for a referral to a good mental health provider, one who specializes in teens.
For more information on teens with ADHD:
When Teens With ADHD Are Defiant
Teens with ADD/ADHD - When to See a Doctor
Creating a Discipline Process at Home
The Out Of Control Child
Parenting Teens and Young Adults with ADHD
I hope this information helps. Please check back and let me know how things work out.
Eileen