My last Share Post dealt with a spouse denying the possibility of ADHD, even when the symptoms are present and undeniable. For some marriages, this results in "If Only..." Spouses may be experiencing some rocky times, with many "if only I had..." or "If only he(she) would...&...



Eileen,
This is a timely post, given the New Year and the penchant for making changes in our lives this time of year. Your words are very wise and I think that in order to move forward in a relationship, yes..we need to accept ourselves, our spouses and our relationship before we have firm ground to move forward in making changes. To accept does not equate approval. We need to remember that we cannot change anyone but ourselves, and then move on from there. Thanks for sharing.
Terry