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Dealing with Denial: Accept Your Responsibilities

by  Eileen Bailey
Sunday, January 13, 2008
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Dealing with Denial in a Spouse with ADD/ADHD

Take Responsibility for Your Part in the Situation

 

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  1. AD/HD Couples
    KEMacDonald
    Sunday, January 13, 2008 at 05:54 PM

    Talk about a relationship complication! And, so much of the literature comes from the perspective that the partner with AD/HD is the male.

     

    It's tough to deal with all the baggage that may result: The ADHD partner may resent being identified as the "problem" or "patient"; feel guilty over having contributed to unhappiness in the partnership; be confused that despite all their good intentions and efforts there are still difficulties, shame relating back to the old refrain that "everything would be ok if they just tried harder"; and eventually hopelessness believing things in the partnership have always been this way and probably won't ever get better.

     

    Having the tips is a nice resource, thanks.

     

    Kelly


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  2. Acceptance
    holeshentz
    Sunday, January 13, 2008 at 11:06 PM

    Hi

    I have not been in denial for some time Becky.

    I am 54 years old and have been seeing  Therapist for some 35 years now.

    I am making less money these days. I am trying to save the monthly visit because it costs me $100.00 a visit sit so please respect My privacy.

    Respectfully Yours

    Joe


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