Dealing with Denial in a Spouse with ADD/ADHD
Take Responsibility for Your Part in the Situation
Relationships are created, or broken, by two people. They do not go bad because of just one per...
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AD/HD Couples
KEMacDonald
Sunday, January 13, 2008 at 05:54 PM -
Acceptance
holeshentz
Sunday, January 13, 2008 at 11:06 PMHi
I have not been in denial for some time Becky.
I am 54 years old and have been seeing Therapist for some 35 years now.
I am making less money these days. I am trying to save the monthly visit because it costs me $100.00 a visit sit so please respect My privacy.
Respectfully Yours
Joe
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Talk about a relationship complication! And, so much of the literature comes from the perspective that the partner with AD/HD is the male.
It's tough to deal with all the baggage that may result: The ADHD partner may resent being identified as the "problem" or "patient"; feel guilty over having contributed to unhappiness in the partnership; be confused that despite all their good intentions and efforts there are still difficulties, shame relating back to the old refrain that "everything would be ok if they just tried harder"; and eventually hopelessness believing things in the partnership have always been this way and probably won't ever get better.
Having the tips is a nice resource, thanks.
Kelly
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