Sunday, January 27, 2008
We are almost through the series of dealing with denial in your spouse. By now, you have accepted your spouse, accepted yourself, accepted your responsibility in your current situation and found ways to take care of you. Now it is time to speak openly with your spouse. In any marriage, com...
As the wife of an ADHD man -- I must disagree with the comments of "not writing things down" and "speak from the heart". Defintely speak from the heart -- but DO write it down -- because your spouse won't remember -- indeed may not even hear or understand - important parts of the conversation 15 minutes after it is over. OH! and once you've spoken the words -- handed your spouse a copy of those words -- be sure you have kept a copy for yourself -- because your spouse will mis-place their copy...