Is it so wrong to have my baby sleep in my room?

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Thu, February 21, 2008

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Well my baby girls been sick so I brought her bed into my room and let her sleep in my room. Last night Jade said that if I want a sleeping partner I have one and now he has moved himself to her bedroom. I guess that means she has to go back to her room. I don't mind having her in my room. Oh well!! I just get tired of it having to be my husband's way or no way at all. Like we can't just have it the way I want it for once. It always ends up being either we are going to do it this way or just not do it! He drives me nuts! Like he can't just sleep in my room with me and the baby!! I was putting the sheets on my bed last night and he said well I wanted to go to sleep and you wanted to put the sheets on the bed. So I left. I was like huh??? Don't you put the sheets on the bed to go to bed??

Yesterday my sister in law came over and I watched her boy because she had to go to a court hearing. She is fostering this boy and they are trying to adpot him.

So my house is trashed and I am trying to explain myself to her right? EEEK!!! I don't want to have to try to explain myself to anyone. I want a clean house. Why can I not achive this???

Ok I am def going to call back the dr. and get someone to talk to I need a theripst!!!!

Thanks for everyone that reads my posts!!!

Today is going to be a postive day! I am not going to let anything or anyone get me down!!!!

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grandma lise

2/21/08 11:06am

Hey Melissajane,

Glad you're moving forward with bringing a therapist on board. It's okay for you and your husband to have and express needs, and to set boundaries. Getting angry about it much of the time is not healthy for the relationship. My hope is that the therapist will be helpful

A really good book Mellissajane is Boundaries by Cloud and Townsend. It's used for book study in many churches and addresses these issues.

Grandma Lise

Stardust

2/21/08 11:24am

It is too bad that your husband makes you suffer with his power plays, while you have enough to suffer with ADHD. It is a good decision to finally get the support of a therapist. It is in your best interest to screen the therapists before you hire one. Be sure they have solid experience with people with ADHD. Sending good thoughts your way to help you have a positive day. Big Smile

Melissajane

2/21/08 11:49am

The Physiotherapist told me they were getting a therapist into their office just for this reason. For support for people like us. So I am thinking that would be the way to go. I really like the Physiotherapist and wish I could just go to her but I guess that's not what she actually does. Anyway!! So I guess I am going to call back and get me in with their therapist if I can't get them to get me in or call me back again! Then I am going to call my regular doctor and see if he can find me someone to see. They have all been awesome with me and I really need some help I know. I know my husband has problems with me. Its not all my fault. Not all his. I think if I had this help it would more than likely help our relationship. I think I might even have him come to some sessions with me. The good thing is the place where I go for all this is just down the street from my parents new house they are getting remodeld. It should be done this month or next so I will have a babysitter very close to the office if I need to go or if my husband will come with me.

Let's hope this works. If I can get a grip on this and get some coaching and someone to talk to then I bet our family will benift from this!!!

Thanks everyone!!

Melissajane

2/21/08 1:06pm

Well I talked to the office. A appt. for March 6th!!!

Stardust

2/21/08 4:46pm

Great news. Keep on hangin' on till then. You can do it!!