first of all ,I had a hard time getting pregnant when I was ready for a family. I didn't know If or when my endometreosis started. But it took me awhile, My daughter came first,then 3 yrs later came my son.I had  felt so blessed that I  had them. My daughter developed fine. She never had any problems. I know each child is different,learns different etc. In my heart I felt something wasn't sitting right with me.I didn't know what it was ,but I felt something was wrong.As he started walking and talking.I didn't see any expression with my son. I didn't know his likes, I didn't see him smile much at all.When i would ask him things, He'd say quit often " I don't know.He was a very cute baby,so sometimes I'd look at him, and he'd say " What". There was a number of things, I just don't want to get into details because I don't know how much space I have. But I was very concerned for him. At the time I didn't know anything about ADD. The first I heard about it was when my son was struggling in 1st grade. I had taken him to Sylvan learning Center to help him, and they had mentioned that he could be ADD.To make a long story short, My son is going to be 19. He didn't finish school. He is very fustrated when things don't go his way. Found out later his dad was a ADD  kid. During my struggle It was my son and I. Noone else understood. I will always keep trying to get my son help. I just hope I can before something horrible happens.