Burbomom1

Number one my 11 year old son has ADHD and if he read something like this he could just as well go commit suicide himself. He is on medication that has been labeled to possibly cause increased chances of committing suicide and after he were to read this post of yours what reason would he see to live as you have suggested everyone run from him and in so many words people w/ adhd are terrible hateful and abusive people.

Number two as I have told  my son in reference to the suicide lable on his ADHD med and his general lack of self esteem and confidence ; nothing in the world is worth commiting suicide NOTHING!!

Number three you are on the wrong web site, your husband has ADHD he needs to be on this site, not you. YOU need to go to suicide.com where you can receive free help and support on matters regarding suicide and talkaboutmarriage.com where you can chat with others about your marriage troubles and "vent" and seek free counseling and tips for helping your marriage or getting out of your marriage.

And number four you need to consider your daughter in all of this. High school is hard enough w/ out the complications you may cause in your suicidal and divorce ideations. If you were to commit suicide there's  a good chance she would drop out or her grades would go down. If you were to divorce it may upset her and be a distraction to her but at least you would still be in her life. If you often fight w/ your husband and your daughter is subjectedt o it often it may be better for her if you were to divorce now rather than waiting for her to graduate. At least she would have some closure on the fact that there is nothing left between her mother and father and she wouldn't have to here the constant arguing.

Number five please don't post here anymore if you are going to continue giving people w/ ADHD a bad name as if its not hard enough on them to live w/ this disorder anyway. If you want to talk about how terrible your husband is go to a site for disgruntled wives, not one where people are seeking help and community for those who struggle with ADHD. As for your husband maybe he's just an a-hole. He may also have other conditions causing his hateful attitude toward you. Has he had blood work done lately? He could also have a thyroid problem which can make the nicest people meaner than a snake. You should research other disorders that cause this type of behavior.  You can call the suicide hotline the number is on the web site. Seek help for your life and marriage.

You and your 11 year old son have a wonderful day and a fabulous life.

You have taught me a great lesson:  why I really, really messed up giving any information about myself to the vast creepy world of people in cyberspace.

Please do me a favor?  Try to remember your manners, step back when you're having a bad day and try not to act on it, but most importantly, please do not contact me ever again.

You won't have to worry about the latter:  I have just contacted the organization who runs this little cyberwhatever and have conceded my huge error in judgement and requested all contact with them be discontinued immediately.