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ADHD expert, consultant, writer. Director: www.MomsWithADD.com
ADHD has been part of my life since...oh, since I was born! But I...
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Thursday, September 04, 2008
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The old saying goes; there are two things in life you can't avoid: death and taxes.
We know that throughout our lives, we'll experience one crisis or another. Death of a loved one, divorce, illness, financial hardships, major disappointments- there's no escaping the realities of life. W...
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THANKS!
mary
Thursday, January 29, 2009 at 04:52 PM
As someone whois facing many "changes" in my life, it's good to know that I am not crazy or stupid for not easily adjusting to these events! I have been going through an awful, expensive divorce for almost 4 years. I have primary custody of my 2 teenagers and full custody of 6 dogs, 2 cats, 1 parrot, & a horse -- while holding down a full time job as an eighth grade teacher. I have lived with constant chaos & a messy house throughout these divorce proceedings. Of course I want my life to improve, but I can't give up our pets & I can't control the court situation. I am in therapy & gradually trying to establish some balance & routine back into my life. I could totally relate to your experience with your puppy. Keep sharing your experiences -- it does help to know that I am not alone . . .
re: THANKS!
Terry Matlen, ACSW
Thursday, January 29, 2009 at 04:58 PM
Hi Mary,
Thanks for your comments.
My, you do have your hands full! Adding ADHD to the mix makes it all the more complicated and diffcult, but you aren't alone. Come back often and get the support you need. I'm really glad you're getting some counseling to help with all of this.
Hang in there!
Terry
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Curve Balls
amineh
Wednesday, July 22, 2009 at 05:18 PM
I am adhd with four kids. Well two at the moment. I am fighting the state for the other two. The say that I am not able to care for all for of my children because I have the adhd. Does anyone have any suggestions on what I can do to prove to them I can?
As someone whois facing many "changes" in my life, it's good to know that I am not crazy or stupid for not easily adjusting to these events! I have been going through an awful, expensive divorce for almost 4 years. I have primary custody of my 2 teenagers and full custody of 6 dogs, 2 cats, 1 parrot, & a horse -- while holding down a full time job as an eighth grade teacher. I have lived with constant chaos & a messy house throughout these divorce proceedings. Of course I want my life to improve, but I can't give up our pets & I can't control the court situation. I am in therapy & gradually trying to establish some balance & routine back into my life. I could totally relate to your experience with your puppy. Keep sharing your experiences -- it does help to know that I am not alone . . .