Adult ADD with a Lack of Spousal Understanding

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Thursday, April 23, 2009
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I'm a 68 yr old man diagnosed with ADD in jan 2008. My wife noticed and identified my symptoms and insisted that I get help. I take Wellbutrin and a 30 mg Daytrana patch. My wife was very disappointed when the meds did not cure me. She has been very intolerant and often ...

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Eileen Bailey
Friday, April 24, 2009 at 11:10 AM

Russell

First, I am very sorry for the loss of your wife. I know this must be a difficult time for you.

Medications do not cure ADHD, although they help many people to manage the symptoms. I am sorry that your wife did not understand that and continued to belittle you and your past accomplishments.

As you have said, in many ways, you and your wife enjoyed a wonderful relationship. It is time to focus on those times rather than focusing on the negative of the relationship.

Eileen