by Dr Kevin Ross Emery
“I just finished reading this book and I have decided that I am ADD.”
“I saw a TV show about ADHD. I have it and so does my son.”
“My daughter’s teacher says she asks too many questions. Do you think she’s hyperactive?”
Over the past ten years, we’ve all heard announcements like these from friends, family and even strangers.
As a spiritual coach and counselor, I deal with questions about ADD and ADHD every day. My insights may be helpful to you, too.
ADD AND ADHD IN ADULTS
Recently, a client started our counseling session by declaring that he’s ADD. His wife was quick to agree. That’s what brought them to my doorstep. They needed help with their marriage.
Often, the first step to repair a marriage begins with personal spiritual growth. Until the individual understands him- or herself, it’s difficult to build trust and understanding in any relationship.
In this case, I did an energetic scan of my client. Some medical intuitives, including me, use this process to identify areas that need work. We “see” physical, emotional and energetic distress.
Next, I described to my client what I saw in the scan. I explained it in the context of ADD. Like many people who are confused by ADD and ADHD, he was relieved to find someone who understood what was going on.
After that, I recommended that they read more about the subject. Between their studies and a few counseling session, the client and his wife were able to understand each other better. According to them, it began a renaissance within their marriage.
For many adults, that’s all it takes. With a little education and some counseling, they learn how to live with ADD and ADHD.
ADD AND ADHD IN CHILDREN
Most people are diagnosed with ADD or ADHD as children. Through them, we can more about the many faces of Attention Deficit Disorder, with or without obvious hyperactivity.
Years ago, one of my most important breakthroughs was with a 12-year-old client. His first statement to me was startling.
With a look of anguish, he blurted, “It hurts to be a human when I think of and see all that we have done to this planet. But, I know I am here to make it better.”
Scanning his energy, I could sense the pain that he was in. To me, it was as if he had been born without skin. He could feel everything around him. He had no personal boundaries.
That session helped him, but it helped me even more. I learned, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that ADD and ADHD aren’t disabilities. They’re gifts.
Those gifts need to be managed and nurtured, but they’re still gifts. They may even point the way that our species is evolving.
If we medicate those gifts to minimize them, we risk losing those gifts altogether.
ADD, ADHD, UNDERSTANDING AND “THE BOX”
During the following months, my practice attracted many clients with Attention Deficit Disorder and forms of hyperactivity. I was one of the few who understood them as gifts, not diseases.
