Sorry for recent absence(just a notice)

Kaori

I am so sorry to hear about your mother. Maybe you can take this time to find a way to come together with your mother. Is there something that both of you find enjoyment in, no matter how small it may be, maybe that would be a place to start. Resolving your differences may be easier if you can find something in common. You may feel better in the long run if you are able to resolve your differences now.

I wish you and your mother the best, please keep us posted.

Eileen

Eileen,Thank you for my mother.

I tried to ask her "What I felt then and you?".type question.for years.

Finally,She said it is so stressful to hear my"real felling",(and I wanted to know her one)

and just hung up.

Her answer would be,"just forget".But I cannot forget.

But her time will soon up,and stress is not good for her,(and me).everybody lose their parent(except people passed so young age).

I cannot make our ending as happy end,only make as a decade's end.

I try to good to her,but I wonder I feel sad when the time come.

(I am sorry,but my family was so abusive)