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When he goes or comes from school it is a war zone!
From tieing his shoes(one pair just to teach him) to closeing door,not running on the street,not forgetting school bag,or to dress a coat,every time the same happens- we are boath so stressed and tired! I used to notice that Im in slippers when entering a car.
I know that taking extra time to prepare is the unswer,but somehow we spend that time talking(during breakfast) about everithing interesting.
His main defiance is doing schoolwork.He is not bad in learning,just opposite.
His grades are great,all teachers say he is extremly clever,he never listens in school what is being thought,he walks arround in classroom,plays,and is having ideas and goals of his own.
Our teacher is full of understanding and help for him(she also has a child with ADHD),but parents of his classmates are really difficult and not understanding that he is not bad mannered or lose child.
I think that his defiance comes from fear that he wont be sucessful as he would like to be."I m stupid to do it!" is his unswer.I spend too much time on explaining and calming him, that is not hard,that is just like a game,and when he finaly agrees to do it he is great at it! Fear of not being sucessful is my sons reason of defiance.
How does that work -- taking "classes" with other home-schooled children?
My son is bright and does well in small groups and with one-on-one support. After months of escalating battles, some of which turned into crises, we called an emergency IEP meeting at school, and one of the changes we made is to have his Special Ed teacher work with him in school to finish all his homework there. The war zone at home instantly transformed to a manageable "sketchy neighborhood," with only minor battles now. The worst times are Sunday nights, when he starts sinking into depression, and Monday mornings, when he gets stubborn and defiant, calling school a prison and insisting he won't go. Sometimes he begs me to homeschool him, but in my mind that would be like going back to the homework-at-home days, which were horrible compared to now.
I was surprised to hear that homeschooling can be more of a structured group experience. Can you tell me more about it? Thank you!
Hi there
I just wanted to say...I am sure you are not alone in this. My son, too, can be like this when he feels that he may make a mistake or be criticized. He likes to be perfect in what he does and gets easily frustrated. It is a hard thing to explain to others.
Thank you so much for your comment.
Hi Dasha and Veronica!
Just wanted to add that I am homeschooling my son and I love it. There is so much support nowadays for parents who choose to homeschool.
Here is a big 'ol article I wrote about homeschooling that you may want to look at.
I am just so grateful that it is an option.
Let us know if you need any resources or more information.