Autism Interview: Robert Parish, award winning film maker, author, and autism advocate

In honor of Autism Awareness month I have the privilege of interviewing my friend, editor, and fellow parent of a child on the autism spectrum.  I first heard of Robert when someone on an on-line support group for parents told me about his documentary entitled, Come Back Jack.   I remember having a cathartic cry when I saw it because Jack was so much like my son.  It made me feel as though I were not alone in experiencing both the joys and struggles of parenting a child who has autism.  I wrote about my reaction to his film to my support group.  My written "review" of Come Back Jack was read by a member who just happened to be Robert's neighbor!  She hand delivered a copy of my post to him and then he contacted me soon after.  My initial mortification turned to gratitude when Robert invited my son and me to be part of an upcoming film he was creating about autism.  And more than several years after our documentary debut, Robert had graciously invited me to contribute the first chapter in a book entitled, Embracing Autism.

So it is my pleasure to introduce to you Robert Parish.

So why don't we start off with you telling our readers here on Health Central who you are and what you are about.

Robert Parish. Otherwise known as Jack's Dad. I've been in the Autism world since my son was diagnosed in 1996. Since then I've produced more than 100 media projects on ASD, including several award-winning documentaries. I've also hosted a regular program on Autism One Radio, and have presented at dozens of conferences, large and small. Last year, my first book on the subject (EMBRACING AUTISM...Connecting and Communicating with Children in the Autism Spectrum) was published by Jossey-Bass. More information about all my ASD work can be found here.

As you know, April is Autism Awareness Month.  Do you think having a month dedicated to Autism awareness helps?

I do. I believe that people are starting to FINALLY take this epidemic seriously. In part that has to do with the powers-that-be designating a time period to recognize ASD. April is perfect. Spring - it's a season of hope and growth. Plus, spring and the change of seasons is a major element of my favorite ASD-themed movie of all time, BEING THERE, starring Peter Sellers and Shirley Maclaine.

How would you define autism?  What is it exactly?

My favorite definition, which I think is the most perfect one I've ever read, came from writer and ASD Mom Lynn Fremer :

"A neurological glitch characterized by obscure talents, impatience, extreme sensitivity, determination, frivolity and merriment, concealed intelligence, excessive and/or infrequent speech and tornado-like behaviors that may be acceptable in a fraternity house, but not in the checkout line. Despite these distinctions, individuals with Autism share an occasional smile that will melt a parent's heart."

When were you first aware of autism?