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Join the Discussion! Should there be Accommodations for ADHD?

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My most important job in the world is to parent my two boys. My...

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Monday, October 19, 2009
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In grade school my eldest son was having great difficulty with his handwriting.  He was referred by the school to see an occupational therapist to help him with his fine motor skills.  His hands would physically hurt and he would struggle to get in class assignments and tests finished withi...
  1. Accommodations
    Eileen Bailey
    Tuesday, October 20, 2009 at 06:53 PM

    What a great discussion topic! I know when my oldest son was in school, he was permitted accommodations, but it seemed like a constant struggle to have the school live up to the accommodations. I didn't ask for much, consistent communication, extra books at home, study guides before final exams. Basically, I didn't ask for any modifications that would change the work requirements. Even so,I continued to fight to get teachers to accept these accommodations were necessary. Many felt that I was babying my son, especially when he reached high school level.

     

    I think accommodations are sometimes necessary but I don't think we can say "people with ADHD need accommodations" because it is too general. I think accommodations are based on individual needs, rather than the name of the disability. Unfortunately, as you know, the "invisible" disabilties are hard, other people cannot see it (and may not believe) but we know it is there.

     

    Eileen

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    re: Accommodations
    Merely Me
    Friday, October 23, 2009 at 08:14 PM

    Hi Eileen!

     

    You make such good points.  It is difficult to get accomodations...I know first hand.  And you are right...I think some of it is because our kids have invisible disabilities.  And to boot...everyone is striving to get their share of resources.  There is only so much to go around.  But they are definitely worth asking for.

     

    I really appreciate your comment.  I am hoping more members will join us in our discussions.  Smile

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    Concerned parent
    Wednesday, October 21, 2009 at 06:08 PM

    My son was given special education help in school. In Minnesota, the schools have to accomodate the student. We also have a federal nonprofit organizatio called PACER that the schools hate us parents to use. They advocate for us the parents, and the student to get the apportitate help for our child. He had smaller classroom 3-4 children in his class, and tests were taken in another room with a ESA(specialist teacher's assistant) without this special help my son would not have graduated. He is now 25 years old, and he advocates for others. He is employed. Never been in detention centers or jail. And he is an Eagle Scout an award he earned in Boy Scout. Thank God he was allowed special help. Just because you can't see the disability physically doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

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    Merely Me
    Friday, October 23, 2009 at 08:17 PM

    Oh that is so wonderful!

     

    I love to hear stories like yours.  I am sure that part of the reason that your son is doing so well is because early on...you were his biggest advocate. 

     

    Thank you so much for sharing your story here.  You are an inspiration to other parents who wonder what the future may hold for their child.

     

    Please do keep reaching out on this site.  You are very appreciated.

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