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Little Hugger is Brian Shipley
I am father to 3 pre school boys, 1 ADHD, 1 Autism Spectrum Disor

I have 3 boys, all pre-school age. One is ADHD, one is Autism...

Little Hugger

Tuesday, September 30, 2008
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When I read the other posts I realize how blessed we are, as there is quite a range of behaviors involved. Our boys were, and are, mainly loud and active. They get along very well together and enjoy each others company. They are not violent or aggressive towards each other or other children. Being ar...
  1. Your Boys
    Eileen Bailey
    Tuesday, September 30, 2008 at 06:41 PM

    I added a comment to your other post as well. Thanks again for sharing your story. It is wonderful to hear how positively you talk about your sons and how involved you seem in their lives.

     

    As far as medication, you are right to look for information before deciding whether it is right for your children. Teachers are not medical professionals and should never provide information on medication or a medical diagnosis. It is your doctor's responsibility to talk to you about medications, if your doctor failed to provide you with enough information, you may want to ask for a referral to a specialist that would be able to explain medications to you and what would be best for your situation, should you require it in the future.

     

    Eileen

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    re: Your Boys
    Little Hugger
    Thursday, October 02, 2008 at 12:47 PM

    Eileen,

     I do intend to delve into the medication business when I become a bit more comfortable here. I still want to know as much as possible.

     I had to deal with serious illness as a child, and was put on high doses of Cortisone/Prednisone, and still take them.

     These meds have profound effects and side effects that I still live with, and always will. 

     My growth was stunted, and it has always been an issue. Its not so bad that I cannot function normally in day to day living, but the societal rejection is near universal. No other group suffers as much prejudice. I did not want that for my sons.

     My eldest is also showing signs of exceptional physical capabilities, and I do not want to deprive him of the chance of a professional athletic career. The chances may be slim, but the wrong decision on my part makes it impossible.

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    re: re: Your Boys
    Eileen Bailey
    Friday, October 10, 2008 at 02:17 PM

    Although medication can play an important part in treatment, there are also many people who manage very well without medication. (Read Debbie Phelps interview - Michael Phelps took medication only for a short time). Behavioral strategies and providing structure can help improve behaviors and help children succeed.

     

    Please keep us posted and let us know how everything is going. Let us know the good and the bad, we can celebrate together the successes and provide support for the harder moments.

     

    Eileen

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