This article hit my situation right on the head! My son is really a good kid but has a hard time making and keeping friends. It is heartbreaking to me as I want him to enjoy his childhood.
He is very critical of kids and wants to always do the right things...which is not terrible....but I am not sure what to do.
He is very smart, but tries to finish work at school so he is not the last one to turn in his paper. He has difficulties remembering what he has studied, no matter how many tricks we use.
Hey Deborah
Just wanted to first say how good it is to see you on the site and I am happy to read a post from you. You have been missed!
The topic you have written about is such a core issue for so many kids who have ADHD or other related disorders. When you look at it...some of these traits can be qualities for leadership but in other cases if the trait is not fine tuned...it can lead to social problems. So the trick is to channel these traits...into socially appropriate interactions.
Looking forward to reading more of this series.
I have an ADHD child and the social problems are, by far, the most devastating for me. I find myself getting angry with him for being argumentative or having problems interacting with his peers, but my frustration stems from the heartbreak I feel for him when he is rejected. He has tried meds, but there were serious side effects. I can't wait for your next post...is there hope for our wonderful children??