I have had ADHD since I was a child but I was only recently diagnosed. Now the three, my son, husband and I live in a house where we all have ADHD.
The only thing that has ever helped me is Flylady. I downloaded her crisis cleaning and weekly house blessing on my mp3 player. I use it and play music while I clean. This has been amazing for me. If you need help, go to flylady.com and then go to http://www.blogtalkradio.com/flylady-tools/2008/04/08/weekly-home-blessing-hour


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I have ADHD too and it's always been very hard for me to manage a household. I have 2 young sons, the oldest, my 6 year old, has just been diagnosed with ADHD as well as other things. I finally got back into using flylady and have now even downloaded it to my android phone and tablet to help my hectic life become a little easier.
She is the best! I think for ADHD this is better than anyother thing I have tried. Behavior modification, meditating, etc has not helped anyone in my family. Have you tried a coach? We are doing next.