Start by writing down on the calendaer each date you have met with the school about your son. Start asking the counselor who you need to talk to at the need level and request their name, address and contact number in writing. If they ask why, then tell them you are going to seek help at the next level because they (the school)  are unwilling to help you. This may spur some activity. If it does not, submit your request in writing to the counselor, the principal, to the ESE Department at the school district and the School Superintendent. Keep copies of everything and if necessary send them with a "Return receipt" (someone has to sign for it then). Be sure to note the number of times you have requested help from the school and what their response has been.

It is sad to say, but this happens more than people realize. Alot of times is because the schools and some teachers are just not educated on the area and are scared of it. I puts them in an area of that they dont understand so they are afraid of the unknown. Its easier to label the children and not deal with them then try to help. If going to the school counselor has not helped. Go the principal of the school. Go thru the channels of school so they dont feel your on bombbarding them, but let them your serious and will not stop till something is done.

They still want to put you on back burner, go to the administration of school for your city. If you dont get any response that way, you can get mental heath for your area involved for dismissing your child and giving him proper education, he is no different than any other child. In fact has been shown that they are very intelligent and excile more than other, but just excused for being trouble makers..  /document everything and they will know your serious and may not dismiss you.

Had the same sort of thing happen and that was the extremes that had to do. let them know i was not just going to go away. Took alot of moving classes but she got in good proper classes that helped her like any other child.