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Has your child had a P.E.T. test for ADHD?  This test tell is the only accurate way of diagnosing ADHD.  Health Insurance should pay for it.  Wants you have this done and the results are positive, you need to set up an IEP or 504 meeting with the school.  This will include your child's teacher, principal, special education teachers and sometimes the school psycholojist will sit-in on the meeting.  You bring yourself, your husband and I recommend an attorney or child's advocate. Take a recorder, make notes of your questions, and listen  to what they say.  When they are through ask your questions and do not be afraid to ask the same question more than once.  You are learning how the school and the teacher response to question.  If an IEP or 504 is written request that it me plain language and that is where an attornney or an advocate will help.  They can also obtain concession from the school that you might not think of asking.  An attorney is expensive but they understand how the meetings are to be run, if the school is following the standard for an approptiate education because that is all a public school has to offer your child.  If they are not doing this thaey will talk to the school adminstration, or be able to take the school to due process.  Then the school district has to provide the needed materials, understanding, or paid for a school that can meet the needs of the child.  Never lose your cool, remain calm and get educated about your state's standards.  Go on the web, go to your state's dept of Education.  You will learn a lot.  Next step is to keep copies or samples of your child's work.. It helps if you have some from early grade periods.  Go to the library and read Wright's Being an advocate for your child.  You have to become educated!  It's best to have an outside advocate.  The school listens beter when a third party is thrown in the mix.