think of the things you love no problem with sitting for 3 hours at a great movie. now think of things you dont embrace not the same passion no passion for u is a problem that can be worked through but your son and me gets a differnt message the ends dont jutifiy the means.after 53 years i still cant turn it off and on. you must be aware that add is normal action that is present in us all but with all the turmoil. no one likes homework cleaning chores ect but add makes the unpleasent very very repeat very easy to ignore if not adreesed it will leed to many problems that will compound the problem think small steps with a solid game plan most people take one step at a time when add is present 1/3 step at a time good luck and be supportive also add has many advantages. you dont think on the same plane as most use that has an advantage has much as this sounds crazy i think at the end of the day i am glad i have add no better example can stand this strong name one other person in the world when asked what are your 2 favorite singers ozzy ozbourne and louis armstrong