• scottadhd scottadhd
    July 07, 2011
    My 15 year old daughter has ADHD and is severely immature. How can we help her "teach" her maturity? She doesn't seem to be growing out of it.
    scottadhd scottadhd
    July 07, 2011
    She has very few friends, because she lacks social skills. What couple friends she claims to have, she seems to have no interest in calling or texting or inviting them over. When she was younger the maturity level didn't matter as much and I could invite the friends for her, but now the gap is growing and she's to old for me to set up "playdates"! She prefers playing with 3rd-4th grade kids, which doesn't help the maturity. She also has no interest in her appearance. (Brushing her hair and teeth, makeup, etc) I am desperate for her to make real friends, as she enters these tough years. READ MORE


  • Eileen Bailey
    Health Guide
    July 08, 2011
    Eileen Bailey
    Health Guide
    July 08, 2011

    Thank you for your question and welcome to ADHDCentral.com.


    I am not a medical professional and would not be able to give you medical advice.


    Children with ADHD are often several years behind their non-ADHD counterparts, even well into the teen years. I am not sure you can teach your child maturity but you can help to teach her social skills, by role-playing, by finding activities that interest her, such as art or music classes, where she can be around others who share her interest. Many children with ADHD tend to do better in small, structured environments.


    For more information:


    How ADHD Impacts the Daily Life of a Child


    Role Playing to Teach Children with ADHD Social Skills


    The Fine Art of Raising a Teen With ADHD


    You may also want to speak with your daughter's doctor and request a complete evaluation. An accurate diagnosis is so important to making sure you have an effective treatment plan in place.




You should know Answers to your question are meant to provide general health information but should not replace medical advice you receive from a doctor. No answers should be viewed as a diagnosis or recommended treatment for a condition. Content posted by community members does not necessarily reflect the views of Remedy Health Media, which also reserves the right to remove material deemed inappropriate.