Q: How do I get checked out for ADHD? My mom doesn't care?
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I am not a medical professional and would not be able to give you medical advice.
You might want to take an online screening test for ADHD and print out the results to help you talk with your mother. These tests aren't supposed to be used for diagnostic reasons but can signal whether you should see a doctor.
You might also want to look at "Teens with ADHD-When to See a Doctor" and share with your mother what information you have found and why you believe you should see a doctor.
Is there another adult in your life you can talk to? Someone who might be able to talk with your mother on your behalf?
I am sorry I could not be of more help.
Let me know what happens.
I am sorry you are having such a difficult time. I commend you for researching and looking for solutions.
Since you are 14 you need your parents to agree to take you to the doctor and it sounds like your mother is not interested in doing so. Possibly you can speak with a guidance counselor or the school nurse and ask one to talk to your mother with you.
Eileen
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I took the tests, and it said I was pretty much likely to have it and I should see a doctor. One of the main reasons my mom won't take me is because our family doctor won't test me and is automatically assuming I don't have it. Then I can't see a specialist because you need a referral and I can't get one. What do I do now?