I am sorry for what you are going through. I cannot imagine how you must feel or the anger/disappointment/hurt/worry you must be going through. It is obvious from your post that you love your children very much and have tried very hard to help them.
I have to tell you, I haven't the slightest idea what to tell you to do. The obvious would be that they need help, but there is the problem they have no intention of stopping. How then, do you keep them in the same home. It is impossible to watch them every second of every day.
I would suggest contacting a local social worker and talking about what options may be available to you.
Please post again and tell me how you are doing.
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