In general, is it harder not to "cheat" on someone you are in a relationship with if you have ADD because of the impulsivity component?
Q: Is there a higher incidence of cheating spouses/couples in those with ADHD?
Answers (2)
11/13/09 9:38am
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I was not able to find information specifically on a higher incident rate of infidelity in adults with ADHD. Some literature did refer to an adult with ADHD's impulsiveness or constant need for high stimulus as a possible factor for infidelity.
Eileen
12/ 7/09 10:16am
Well, I don't know about statistics, but from experience. I was first diagnosed with ADD in my 5th grade year of school. Just a few months ago I was diagnosed with ADHD. I've been married for about 4 1/2 years. I've cheated on my husband 3 times. Now, I'm not exactly blaming my ADHD for it, but I do have a problem with impulsive behavior and with not thinking thngs through. I'm known for not thinking before I act. I do regret them, but I have a knack for not showing my emotions, so I seem to not care either way. My doctor told me that it's more possible to not cheat if you have ADHD, because of the parts of the brain that this condition impairs. He also informed me that there are ways to stay away from temptation. I haven't lately been confronted with the temptation, but I'm confident about myself. If you or someone you know has a problem with this, make sure you're never alone with a man/woman unless it's your significant other, and if you're having problems in a relationship always confide in someone of the same sex, like your best friend or even a relative.
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Yes, I believe there is. My wife went off the pill so we could have a third child. Within 2 weeks of being off the pill she had an affair. I found out and when I asked why she had no answer other than "I just wanted to." Her actions over time always showed that she was irresponsible and as a man it was devastating to love someone who would act so immature on a daily basis. Her career soared but not because of her ADHD. Now divorced and without her I see all that ADHD caused yet she still does not. Cylert was her drug...cheating and binge activities was/is her downfall. "honestman2729@gmail.com"