Help me help her please. She has always worked hourly jobs. Has two degrees. Was fired from a very good job for harrassment. True or not she loved her job and was good at it. It was fun workplace w/ lots of rules and a job where she could move around and was out in her car a lot. Her type of job. She may well have overstepped her bounds. She is a born leader but tends to over extend herself and has a sort of "do it my way" attitude. She is a mess to live with. Disorganized and extremely messy and less than truthful a lot of the time. She was sure this time it would be "different" but when she received her first paycheck she blew it on fast food, restaurants, etc. No bills paid from it at all. Her dad and I had been carrying her for 6 months till she found this new job and then lost it after 4 months. I am at my wits end. She is on Adderall. Needs to lose weight. Of course joined a gym which she cannot afford now. How can I help her help herself. She still lives with us because she can not afford her own place. Now with her health ins. gone she can not go to counseling. We cannot afford to carry her again. Help!
