Hello there

I know it must be so frustrating to try to deal with the day to day struggles of helping your child.  My son has extreme behavioral issues due to his autism and despite the fact that I worked in the field of special education and know so many of the behavior management strategies...sometimes I have no clue as to what to do.  I think it is because it harder for parents.  It is not the same as if we were our child's therapist or teacher.  It is difficult to remain objective when we must parent our child 24/7. 

One thing you said here struck me and that is that you say your child behaves well in school.  I would definitely ask your child's teachers what works there for his behaviors. 

One thing I do know is sometimes when children have to hold it together all day at school and then they come home...it is like they let loose.  I call the dinner hour the witching hour because this is when my son gears up all his energy and displays some of his behaviors.

Keep writing and reaching out here.  One other thing I would highly recommend is to join an on-line support group of other parents who are dealing with similar issues.  This has kept my sanity during some very bad times.

If you have specific behaviors you want to talk about...please don't hesitate to ask another question here.

Hang in there!  You will survive this.  Thank you for your question.