God bless your son adhd kids are usually smart and do not feel challenged. Did he get his big brother? Alot of times they just want attention, please do not make him feel you want to give up your rights. I am a guy who has been a big brother to an adhd kid since he was 11. Since I come into his life he is an honor student and does very well and it changed his life. Please let me know update on your son and I will pray for him. Answer this if you can and tell me what is going on.