How can coaching help to improve someone’s life? The relationship between a coach and client is unique. Although a coach can work with many different clients, each interaction will be different. One client may be looking for assistance in improving their efficiency at work, while another may be interested in improving personal relationships. Yet another may want to create structure and organization in their life. The coach works with the client by assisting them in creating systems that will work for their situation. They will educate clients on ADHD and guide them in seeking out how they can improve their daily lives. A coach does not make plans for the client, but rather provides guidance and structure to help individuals make their own choices. Although some coaches offer face-to-face coaching, most coaching is done through email and phone consultations.
Even though each coaching relationship is unique, there are some commonalities in the coaching process. Normally, it will follow a process similar to this outline:
1) The initial consultation is often longer than follow up sessions. During this conversation the coach will ask questions and listen to their client. The coach will be seeking to find out about the client and their personal situation. The client will have the opportunity to discuss what has been working in their life and what is not working. They will be able to talk about their goals. The client will discuss what area they feel needs to be addressed first. Sometimes, during the conversation, this goal will change from one area to another. For example, a client may feel they want to work on losing weight. After talking with the coach, they may determine that procrastination is an obstacle to their losing weight, as well as interfering with other areas in their life. They may decide to begin working with the coach on procrastination instead of weight loss first and once that has been improved, weight loss will be a second goal.
2) Follow up sessions are often a combination of telephone consultations and email. Normally, a schedule and structure for the coaching will be discussed during the initial consultation. A weekly or bi-weekly phone conversation and emails several times a week would be one example of a coaching structure. Follow up telephone consultations traditionally would be somewhere between 30 minutes and 1 hour in length. These conversations will include discussions on progress being made, set backs that may have occurred and setting goals for the upcoming week.