Establishing a Reward System. Children with ADHD respond particularly well to reward systems. One study reported that they performed equally well when encouraged either by a direct reward for a correct response or with the use of a system called response-cost. With this system, the child is given the reward first and allowed to keep it if their behavior remains appropriate.
Some suggested tips for rewarding the ADHD child are:
- Create charts with points or stars for good behavior or for completed tasks. It is important to give points for even simple positive behaviors, which may be taken for granted in other children (responding happily to a change in plans, changing an obscenity to a more acceptable expletive).
- Rewards for any child can include playing a favorite game with the child, extending bedtime by an hour, or allowing an extra half-hour of TV.
- Rewards of food or gifts should be used infrequently, if at all. They can create other problems, such as being overweight, having a bad diet, or making continuous demands for objects.
- A reward system should rotate different types of rewards, because such children are easily bored.
- Children with ADHD respond better with small rewards promised in the short-term than large rewards offered in the future. One approach that employs both short- and long-term rewards uses a system that gives the child points for specific positive behaviors. As the children accumulate points, they can use them for larger tangible rewards, such as a favorite video game or CD.
- Rewards should be promised only when caregivers are fairly certain they can follow through. ADHD children respond with much greater frustration than non-ADHD children to disappointment, and are likely to have a strong (and noisy) negative reaction. A parent must remember that this response is part of the ADHD child's make-up and not necessarily in their control.
Improving Concentration and Attention. Research indicates that ADHD children perform significantly better when their interest is engaged. Parents should be on the lookout for activities that hold the child's concentration. Some options that may help an ADHD child to focus include:
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