There's lots of things you can do to get relief from an allergy, but one of the most important things you can do is to stay away from the things you are allergic to.

Also, keep in mind the formaldehyde is possible carcinogen (a carcinogen is a substance that can cause cancer), so you should try that much harder to avoid it whenever possible.

The EPA says this about formaldehyde: "Formaldehyde, a colorless, pungent-smelling gas, can cause watery eyes, burning sensations in the eyes and throat, nausea, and difficulty in breathing in some humans exposed at elevated levels (above 0.1 parts per million). High concentrations may trigger attacks in people with asthma. There is evidence that some people can develop a sensitivity to formaldehyde. It has also been shown to cause cancer in animals and may cause cancer in humans. Health effects include eye, nose, and throat irritation; wheezing and coughing; fatigue; skin rash; severe allergic reactions."

Be sure to carefully read labels of any products that you normally use or come in contact with. The EPA also offers a list of tips for reducing your level of exposure to formaldehyde, which is commonly found in housing and building materials.

As for itchy skin, many over-the-counter hydrocortisone creams should provide itch relief (but be sure to read the label, because I don't think you can put the cream on broken skin).

If you're concerned at all about your reactions, then you should see your doctor.

After 18 months of a feeling lousy and having a mystery rash, a patch  test finally proved I am allergic to formaldehyde. (Dec. 2007)

Products: There are 'safe' products. I only use Cetaphyl wash and lotion - vaseline works too. I use Aveda rosemary mint shampoo.

Clothes and materials: These are another problem. I can't wear anything that has been sprayed with formaldehyde and most things have been sprayed (including orgainic cotton and hemp that I've bought). I limit my materials to acrylic, acetate, and nylon. This is tough, but it's been a year and I'm finding sources.  I can find acrylic sweaters and skirts - pants are tough.The LLBean nylon pants with the zipper that turns them into shorts are 'safe' except for the zipper. (Note: acrylic, acetate, and nylon do not absorb. I wash everything in ammonia when I bring it home from the store. It hasn't ruined anything, yet.) This from someone who used to wear all natural fibers!

Furniture and cars: Anything that is material is probably sprayed with formaldehyde. I have an acrylic blanket that I keep handy, but you might ride in someone's car or have a business meeting and find a few days later you have the rash. 

Bed sheets: I found cotton/bamboo sheets that are 'safe' but went back to buy more and the newer products do give me a rash. Guess the formaldehyde distributor's got another new contract. I use my own sheets at hotels.

Until formaldehyde use is legislated I think folks like us will have problems.

It's been a year. My life is simpler - after all I have very few products and very few clothes. No fashion diva here! I still have flare ups, but can usually trace it back.

Good luck to you.