Father's Day

Many people become discouraged when it's time to celebrate a holiday with a family member who has dementia.  Rather than become discouraged, use the following tips to make this Father's Day a great day to remember.

• Remember that your Dad may become overwhelmed in large crowds and loud noises.  It may be best to have a cookout at home, rather than go to a crowded restaurant.
• Give Dad the opportunity to be successful.  Have him "give advice" on how to flip the hamburgers on the grill.  Perhaps he used to enjoy fishing, plan a small fishing trip at a local stream or pull out the tackle box and "plan the next fishing trip."
• Give Dad gifts that will remind him of his past.  A scrapbook with pictures of his adventures, family, friends, and work might be the perfect tool to help him start reminiscing and have a conversation.
• During the family get together, be sure that Dad has an opportunity to rest.  If he becomes overwhelmed during the day, encourage him to take a break guide him to a quiet part of the house.
• Make sure everyone understands ahead of time if possible that, if Dad is repeating the same phrases or questions, this is part of the dementia process.  Answer the questions each time as though it is the first time you have responded to Dad.
• Enjoy your DAD!  Remember, if the family is upbeat and enjoying their time together, then your dad will too.

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