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Later Stage Dementia - Some Common Ground For Communication

By Joseph Thursday, November 05, 2009

 

The hardest part of communication with a later-stage dementia patient is grasping the concept that you cannot help them to think straight.  You cannot educate, correct, argue, alter, or ammend, the faulty thought processes that you are witnessing.  The best thing that you can do, is seek the common ground from the past that helps you both to connect and have some pleasant time together.     

 

Carol Bradley Bursack, Health Guide
11/ 5/09 9:30am

This is a wonderful post, Joseph! You have developed a lot of insight. Thanks for sharing this information.

Carol

11/ 5/09 4:25pm

Thanks, Carol!  I hope that someone finds it helpful. -- Joe

11/ 5/09 9:36pm

 Hey Joe,

 

 I cant spell but you are tight on track with your ma!  I know with my mom if I correct her or try to tell her right from wrong I am in for a big argument. And of course a argument I will never be able to win. So I just go to her world and enjoy it!

 Thanks Buddy.

I agree, nice post!

11/ 5/09 10:07pm

Thanks, Bill!  I know that you've "been there, done that"...I hope that my story will reinforce the need to "go with the flow", for those who are struggling with these issues or are about to. -- Joe

Anonymous
Lori La Bey
11/30/09 4:14pm

Great advice.  I too have a Mother in end stages of the disease.  I never thought it would change my life the way it has.  I am now an advocate on steriods for Alzheimer's disease.

 

Lori La Bey

www.Alzheimersspeaks.com                       a resource website

www.AlzheimersSpeaks.Wordpress.com        Blog

11/30/09 8:26pm

Lori, I appreciate your comment and links!  Thanks! -- Joe

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By Joseph— Last Modified: 12/20/10, First Published: 11/05/09