Finding the right gift for a person with dementia need not be difficult. There are many wonderful items you can buy or make that will make the time you spend together meaningful and enjoyable.

First on the list of gifts is a book by Susan Berg called Adorable Photographs of Our Baby -- Meaningful, Mind-Stimulating Activities and More for the Memory Challenged, Their Loved Ones and Involved Professionals, This book features baby photographs that seniors with dementia love. This book shares a plethora of ideas and resources for you, the gift-giver.

Another gift a dementia person will fancy is a classic musical video or DVD. He/she will enjoy watching something from the good old days and singing the songs played throughout the picture. Here are a few suggestions: Singin’ in the Rain, Meet Me in St. Louis, or Shall We Dance.

Next is a sing a long CD or audio cassette of their favorite songs. There is a series of these called, Old Time Favorites by Nancy Pitkin.You may want to get a sing a long video where loved ones can see and hear performers singing songs they love. A good one is, Sing-Along with Phil Bernardi: Songs We Know and Love.

Here is another idea. Give them hand lotion. Any kind will do. Just be aware of any allergies or pain issues they might have. If they can tolerate it, those with a pleasant scent work well. Give them a relaxing hand massage talking about how good the hand massage feels and maybe about the good old days, as well.

If you cannot afford or do not have time to get these gifts, give the gift of yourself. No matter how hard it is for you to visit, they will appreciate your company even though they may not be able to express it. Take them for a walk, sing some of your favorite songs together, give them a hand massage. Just share some quality time with them. All of you will feel better.

Do remember to be upbeat animated and excited about visiting. No arguing, please.

These gifts are simple, inexpensive or free, and can be enjoyed by all.