Seeing Past the Patient and Into the Whole Person

Dear Christine:

Thanks for another super post.  You are right that we need to remember that all people have a story especially those who might not be able to share it themselves.

This post might be important to caregivers as well. Anything they would do to help share their loved ones story with the staff at a eldercare facility might aid in sustaining a greater quality of life for that loved one.  Knowing the details of a persons life will help a staff member to find a connection that will help them in their treatment of the loved one.  It becomes just personal enough to help create a relationship.

As for your point about possessions - soap, memory books, etc.  This is also a great way to make a connection.  I have an elderly Great Aunt living in a nursing home.  We try and keep updated pictures of my kids (her "princesses") in her room.  She actually enjoys wearing a locket with their pictures to show all of the staff and other folks living there.

All the best, sue 

She loves pictures and enjoys different things we  bring in. flowers etc.

She will sometimes give us a vacant look. You wonder when she looks out the window what is she thinking?????