Coping with Disinhibited and Inappropriate Sexual Behavior

Christie,

Thanks for the post! It helps me a lot. However, I think there are 2 types: one is the "nice" and innocent type and the other is the one that needs medication or help. For now, my father-in-law is back to wanting a wife again as all the ladies didn't seem to work out for him (just his trying although 2 of them are married already.) His home care nurse told me he is getting more self-centered. If he gets worse, he would need to go to a nursing home. Not just about wanting a woman, but also about his demands.

He is in severe/moderate stage (functional late stage 6.)

Regards,

Nina

Thanks Christine for addressing this topic.  I think in most "normal" situations sexuality is a private thing - talking about it, expressing it, etc.  It must be very difficult for a caregiver to watch a loved one with such behaviors.  Imagine having to address this kind of thing with your dad.  Just really frsutrating and embarassing as you say - for both cargiver and loved one. 

So as you say, do not go it alone.  Find a team - doctor, nurse, social services center, etc. - who can help manage this.  And follow the advice you've given - it's smart and direct.

All the best, sue