RDO Equipment, of Moorhead, MN specializes in agriculture. The company also specializes in giving back to the community. RDO services a metro area that is divided by the Red River of the North - North Dakota on one side, Minnesota on the other.
While the cities of Fargo, ND and ...
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toy and reading
ninamarczynski
Wednesday, April 16, 2008 at 01:20 PMre: toy and reading
Carol Bradley Bursack
Wednesday, April 16, 2008 at 03:37 PMMy dad would have loved Animal Planet and the Discover channel, as science was one of his loves. And he, too, wouldn't have liked any kind of toy. Everyone is different. You might try magazines with a lot of pictures.
Does he know the difference between journals - I mean, could you "recycle" some from years past if they are around? Sometimes that works, and sometimes not.
Does Animal Planet have any related magazines? Things like that may work. It's always a guessing game. My dad had to be a professional all the time and so it was things like his papers and brief case and letters I wrote to him from "important" people.
He loved his military medals, too. But he lost most of them while "playing" with them. That's okay. He enjoyed holding them, and they can be reissued once, so I had that done and given to my brother, who was in Vietnam.
You're doing good things Nina. It's nice to hear from you again. Take care and keep trying. It's all we can do.
Best,
Carol
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ninamarczynski
Wednesday, April 16, 2008 at 05:34 PMThanks. We are going to try National Geography. His Mom and Dad used to have that. My husband said his Dad still knows if the magazine is new or old. Something new would make him feel good. It surprised me that his Dad declines slowly, not that he has not declined. This year or so may be the last good year left for him before he gets into the last horrible stage.

Nina
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Sue
Thursday, April 17, 2008 at 04:38 PMThanks Carol for this great post. I guess sometimes less can be more - maybe we all can learn a lessen from the tractor company.
As well, seems we all love to have the things that we cherish and comfort near us as often as possible.
All the best, sue
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I thought it is nice that you made sure your parents had something to read. My father-in-law's scientific magazines have expired this year but he has tons of old journals in the house. My husband did not want to subscribe more for his Dad saying he cannot read and make sense. It is true - he cannot even read a simple telephone directory we wrote. He could not make sense out of it. I wonder if it would cause more confusion for his Alzheimer's mind. But I was thinking of some other simple magazines like Life or US News (cheaper than the scientific journals for sure.) He does not like toys as he is still thinking he is adult (his mind acts like a 6-year-old sometimes.) If someone can make career-like toys... It would be interesting. Now he sees the cable tv's animal planet channel as his projects - he would want to write papers on those programs (not that it is his own field!) Of course it was just his attention for half hour and he forgot about it later.
Nina
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