A Book To Spark Conversation and Thought about the Dying Process

Terman writes at length about the diagnosis and misdiagnosis of when a person goes into a persistent vegetative state and whether it is a state one would come out of, as well as quality of life, if one does come out of this state. The book is packed with real stories and examples, as well as tons of scientific data. I couldn't begin to encapsulate all that he says in a few paragraphs without skewing his message. However, I'd come close to making a bet that anyone who reads this book would make it a priority to put his or her wishes into a legal document that will stand up in court. 

I will leave you with this quote from Dr. Terman that comes as close as I can see to summing up the book: "When we are sure that we have the freedom to control when we die, we can-and we often do-choose to live longer."

The Best Way to Say Goodbye: A Legal Peaceful Choice at the End of Life, is published by Life Transitions Publications. If the book intrigues you, you can obtain much more information about it at www.caringadvocates.org.

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