There may be many options for this family, but each family member has taken a stance and no one is moving because no one can see the other person's viewpoint. It's all too emotional. A dispassionate third party can cut through the emotion and help the family make decisions. The NPR article suggests two Websites to check if you are interested in a mediator. One is Elder Mediators and the other is the Association for conflict Resolution.
It's unfortunate that these services aren't available everywhere, and the services do cost money. But it's a very good option for families who disagree on how their parents should be cared for. If you can't find someone in your area that qualifies as an elder mediator, you may find a geriatric care manager or a counselor at a non-profit organization that can help your family through this uncomfortable phase. Even a pastor, Rabbi or a long-time family friend can be an option. Third party help can clear the air of emotion and bring some reason into family dynamics. It's certainly worth a try.
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