Relationship with son at a loss of grief and sadness over the passing of my mother, his grandmother.
I am fifty years of age with many past mistakes in my life, but I have had many good times and memories with both parents and my one and only living child out of three. My son is twenty-one, and has helped me care for both parents withing the past ten years. Total committment on both of our parts. The rest of the family could care less what happens to us or even if we can make it on our own. We are struggling with ideas to make our farm profitable and our life back to some type of normal environment, with joy, love, caring and studying. Both of us are not doing very well at this time and we only have one person we can count on for suggestions. Please someone out there relate to my son's hostility towards me and others, sadness, grief, loneliness, anger, temper. Please give us some knowledge or past experience on these problems. I would do anything to make our life worth living freely, without so much on our life such as stress over our loss and financial difficulties. Just a note on myself, I have many lower back issues, headaches, hopelessness, and the need for suggestions and good medical advise. It has been one month and three days since my last parent died with Alzheimer and dementia. I also have a very poor memory and listening skills. I am ADD and B-Polar combined per my eight years of service with my good psy. doctor. We both go to him, but neither of of have given him any of this information.