No more 2:00am wake ups from my beloved husband. He is gone now as you all know. I am so sorry I haven't written to many of your comments I have read them but not commented on all. It has just been so over whelming for me. I haven't left just reading them and being silent. I am back.
Many times before Ray left when it was early and the... Read more
Dear friends,
I don't know where to begin I already know how it ends.
I have been here and shared with everyone my role as the care giver of my husband with alzheimers. My husband was the love of my life. Over the past thirty years we have shared so much, love, friendship, children and grandchildren. We had the priviledge of... Read more
Hi I say this with great sadness but my beloved husband is dying. The Alzheimers has accelerated so quickiy. That is not what is killing him. He has started going into organ failure. His whole body is starting to shut down.
It's been an amazing and long odicy. Heart attacks his legs amputate and then COPD and congestive heart failure.... Read more
Hi everyone,
I would love to tell you all the year ended well. Unfortunately 2008 ended badly and 2009 isn't looking a lot better. Not totally true we had a Christmas miracle. This was the first year my great grandson spent away from home with his biofather. I say he is that because for such an intellectually smart man he has no common sense. He... Read more
I can't tell you the name of the company but just a warning to caregivers about Home Health Care Agency's. Do lots of checking and get to know the staff of the agency you chose. Be extremely proactive about the care they provide and the things they say. I wish I had taken my own advise before I got Ray into this particuliar one. Most of them are... Read more