Forty Days Without TV

By Leah, Health Guide Monday, March 02, 2009
Memory…ahhhh, I wish I could remember what it was like to be able to just pull out of thin air all the memories I know I must have had at some time…  Seems I’m doing a lot of head shaking (back and forth, not up and down) when Bill asks if I remembered to do something&hell...
Carol Bradley Bursack, Health Guide
3/ 3/09 11:55am

Nina, you are one of those people that finds the blessings in everything. What a wonder you are. This time without TV will have lasting effects on your life, and you can see that. You are also willing to give something up for lent and remember why. Keep writing. You are such an inspiration.

 

Carol

 

 

Leah, Health Guide
3/ 3/09 2:23pm

Giving up TV has certainly caused a wrinkle in my day.  I have just started getting a little more active.  I have lots more decisions to make in all my freed time!  I've finished three Janet Evanovich Stephanie Plumm novels--easy reads, entertaining.  I am enjoying reading parts of the Bible I have never studied before.  This, I think, has been the best thing I've ever given up to the glory of God. 

Carol Bradley Bursack, Health Guide
3/ 4/09 11:26am

Boy did you make me smile!

Blessings,

Carol

3/ 4/09 6:25am

Wow Leah hurrah for you.

 

We all need to take a page out of your book and lay our remotes down. We do need to quit whispering about dementia. It comes in so many forms we do not even think about. It dosen't matter if it is physical, physological or emotional.  I have been on such a roller coaster ride and now with no TV on twenty four seven as Ray had his on the quiet is deafening. I have spent so much time reflecting on the past but still trying to move forward. If I could turn back the clock and redo many things it would have been less TV and more talking. I am having to relearn who and what I am. I am struggling to put my house back in order but also trying to find myself in this life I now find myself living in. I seem to be taking one step forward and two back. I am still living with notes as you once suggested other wise I would accomplish nothing any more the stress of my loss has been so overwhelming.

 

You go girl keeping us grounded and back to basics is one of your finest qualitites. You struggle so much but do not complain. You share you difficulties and teach us all life lessons that should come naturally but don't. Just think how much electricial power we could all save by turning off our TV's for even just one hour at the same time and spend that hour with our loved ones. This life we live is so brief that we need to stop and start living in the moment not in the TV.

 

Thank you so much Leah you have given us all food for thought. Your friend in Texas Connie

Leah, Health Guide
3/ 5/09 2:55pm

Wow, Connie!   You really "got the picture" (no pun included LOL) from what I wrote.  I think we as a society have gotten used to using the TV as a babysitter both for babies and children as well as for old folk.  And we use it to settle our anxieties by allowing it to dope us into denial of the life around us...  It's time WE took control of the remote and LAID it down...even HID it! 

 

Your journey is taking you slowly to a path of recovery and rebirth.  You've lost your dear Ray. but you are still here with us, teaching us, sharing with us your journey, too.  God bless you, Connie, and you travel the path back to the living.

 

Leah

3/ 5/09 12:14pm

Good Morning Leah,

 

I hope 2009 is treating you well!  It must be interesting living this past week without TV - a staple you've been used to having occupy much of each day.  As hard as it might be to break the routine I am sure it's giving you the opportunity to focus on more rewarding things.  

 

You could take the "extra" time to get your Vitamin D dosage taking your dog outside for nice long walks if you wanted - I can't believe 70 degree weather is forecast to come our way soon!     

You've got your scrapbooking projects you can enjoy as well - and lots of friends and family you can communicate with.  Finally, (if you are like me) there are always those pesky little projects around the house that get put off but feel so good to take care of and remove from the "to do" list.   

 

I think it's great you're approaching life from a new and positive perspective.  It's extremely rewarding to know it is never too late for any of us to change and make healthier decisions.  It took me one Friend to realize just how wonderful life can be.  There's so much to be thankful for.

 

I wish you the very best and will continue to keep in touch!   Smile      

 

- Bill

Leah, Health Guide
3/ 5/09 3:04pm

Hi, Bill.  Good to hear from you again.  Being without TV has not been a piece of cake.  I have gotten in some great reading and even did a little housework.  However, I have learned one thing so far.  To give a little background to the daily TV I DO watch:  before 9 AM, The Weather Channel and news, news, news.  After 3, Dr. Phil, news, news, CSI or Burn Notice or anything of that type.  Now on to what I have learned:  I prefer to listen while doing other things rather than actively watching.  For instance, I had to wait until 3 PM the other day before I could clean out my refrigerator (my husband howled with laughter about that) because I needed the "noise" in the background.  Music doesn't have the same effect.  It doesn't give me enough to think about.  My solution, I think, will be to turn on some Talk Program on XM when I want to work between 9 and 3... but, does this mean I'm just exchanging one vice for another?   What a dilemna!  Thanks for sharing your thoughts with me, Friend.   

God bless you on your path.  Leah

Anonymous
Gregg
3/ 9/09 9:34am

Aunt Leah--

 

TV is flat-out evil, IMO, so kudos to you for going without -- now, can you make a resolution that if you get through the 40 days without it 9am-3pm, can you get rid of it altogether?  I challenge you!  [No, stop laughing...this is serious!  I really deeply believe that TV is evil incarnate...it destroys us in the most subtle of ways, by causing us to waste minutes or hours of our precious life in attentive servitude to commercial interests that, by definition, cannot care for us.]

 

From the time my daughter was born to about the time she was 4 years old, we had no TV -- and it was wonderful!  Of course, at that age, you're doing a whole lot as a parent...it was easy.  But while my wife continued to maintain the no-TV habit, I relapsed...and now my daughter is hooked too.  I have had plans for months now to unhook us again, but just haven't had the motivation to carry through.

 

There is so much more you can do with those hours you'd otherwise waste in front of the TV -- you'll see!  These forty days will be a period of rediscovery for you.   Allow boredom to build up...it is a powerful motivator, and the mother of curiosity.  Here -- I'll give you a few serious suggestions for things you could do to fill the gap left by TV: 1) (re)learn calculus or particle physics from a college textbook or online somewhere, 2) hit Hulu.com and watch every episode of your favorite sci-fi show in order (you'll notice things you'd never see watching the episodes week-by-week), 3) play a video game -- and get good at it!, 4) (carefully) learn a dangerous sport, like skateboarding or unicycle-riding (carefully!), 5) walk down the street and introduce yourself to a neighbor you've never formally met, 6) go on a city adventure -- pick a restaurant and a museum in DC or Baltimore and chart your way to, between, and from them -without- using your car [cities can be wonderfully mind-expanding for folks that don't get into them often].

 

I'm glad to hear someone else is trying to live *without* TV...we're not going to kill this social cancer until enough people ignore it that the advertisers take their dollars elsewhere.

 

   -Gregg

Anonymous
Anonymous
5/14/09 10:38pm

Leah,

 

I love your blog.  I'm going to recommend it to everyone I know!

 

-Kiessa Webster

www.explorebeautifullife.com

Leah, Health Guide
5/15/09 5:46am

Thank you so much, Kiessa.  It gives me great joy to be able to write it.  God blessed me with the gift of writing and I am so lucky that the dementia is not affecting it at this point.  I hope to leave behind my words, sharing my life and observations...they will speak for me when I no longer am able.  I hope I can make an impact on any who are recommended to my blog by you.

I would greatly enjoy receiving any comments when you feel the need to write to me.  God bless you!

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By Leah, Health Guide— Last Modified: 03/23/13, First Published: 03/02/09