My husband and his anger toward me

I am so sorry that you are having to go through this with your husband. I'd like to encourage you to find a network of people near you - friends, other family- who can help ease the pain you are going through.

One of our community members, A.A. Schutte, just posted a great blog with some steps for caregivers. It might help you to better deal with your husband. It's called You can't do it alone. You can also read Dorian Martin's post called Caregiving Decisions: Acting Out of Love, Not Fear.

Lastly, read this post from another community member, what about violent behavior?, which inlcudes advice from Dorian Martin on how to deal with violence.

Thanks for writing. I hope this helps.

MK