Mom fell last night

Jan, I related so much to your post. Both of my parents fell multiple times, through no fault of anyone. These things happen, unless you can hire a one-on-one nurse to sit with the person at all times, which many would find intrusive.

In years past, restraints were often used to prevent this, all with the "safety" of the person mind. Restraints are now illegal in most states, thank goodness. They may prevent physical injury but can do horrible psychological and emotional harm.

You were so fortunate to have a wise doctor to see your mom and you were wise to follow his caring advice. The only time my parents went to ER after a fall was if there was an obvious injury that couldn't be handled at the nursing home. These trips to ER were horrible for them (and me). Anytime there was a fall, I was called. We made the decision together about what should be done. Of course the professionals checked for broken bones and check the vitals.

You and your mom are in my thoughts and prayers. This is always a difficult thing to endure, but you handled it well.

Carol

Jan,

You did everything you could for your mom.  Did the facility offer to lower her bed so a fall would be more of a roll off the bed than a crash?  You may want to ask if they can do that.

Clare