Creating a daily routine for your loved one can help with confusion and disorientation. Having a set plan as well as a "reminder board" can help remind your loved one of important facts, such as the date, time, appointments and other things she might need to know.
Are you sick of arguing with Dad over his driving? Is Mom unable to handle her checkbook, but she'll be darned if she'll let "you kids" take over? Is your older brother dead set against Dad going to a locked Alzheimer's unit, even though he's wandered away from Mom's care three times, once in the dead of winter? Family problems can get…