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I am sorry to hear about your husband’s rapid progression.  As you may already know, Alzheimer’s disease is considered a progressive neurodegenerative illness, which means that the illness causes more and more damage to the brain over time.  As the brain deteriorates, an individual can suffer with the loss in the ability to think, function, act, remember, and control their bodies.  Unfortunately, due to the illness, the organs may function correctly but the brain can’t manage the effort.  Every individual progresses differently with the illness, as some people can live only a few years, where others can live for up to 20 years. Knowing this, it is important to understand and recognize changes of condition, in order to discuss concerns with his healthcare provider and promote the best quality of life for your husband.  His body shutting down can not be predicted as there are many factors that could influence his progression at this stage.  You may want to speak to a healthcare professional regarding the end stages of the illness and what to expect over time.             If your husband is in the end stages of the illness, it is more likely he is totally dependent on others.  It is important he be kept comfortable and his safety is of utmost concern.  Communication may be nearly impossible for him but it is essential you keep the communication open by telling him he is safe and that you are there to help and support him. He may not be able to respond to you but talking to him can be beneficial and therapeutic for both you and your husband during this difficult time. It is important that you take care of yourself as well.  Talking to friends, joining a support group or simply taking a walk can help you take some time to collect your thoughts, vent any anger, grief and confusion in order to adopt a renewed sense of hope and feeling of calmness.  Your husband needs your support and love at this time and is lucky to have you by his side.