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Thanks Carol   I appreciate the help -- I have to admit I really don't know how much longer my husband and his siblings are going to be able to care for his mother.  I clean the house and cook the meals and that is about it.  She is so full of hatred that I am not able to commuincate with her effectively.  I grew up in a house full of hate and abuse and can not take it from her.    So I do what needs done in the shadows, I am the one she says is stealing from her and moving her things around on purpose, with that said I don't how much more of the house cleaning I will be doing either.  I feel like I am letting my husband down but I have no other choice, she is already acting as if she is going to get violent.   Thanks for your help Ginger Duffy